Yes, mine a purple when i set it up too.
However i don't think mature sophisticated man in his early 30's is the look you're going for. Youth and girlyness are things that sit much better on women, cutesy can be appealing in women, it has obviosly worked for you.

It occurs to me that shineyjenni would be a good match for Neil, i don't know if you know her. But she would need someone confident because she can be very quiet when she wants to be.