The guys I like are very laid back, don't think too much about how other people perceive them and smile a lot. For me, personally, I will much sooner fall for a man who's aloof and don't seem to be interested in my approval, than for someone who instantly gets personal - if someone asks for my phone number or starts very obviously flirting, I'll start recoiling and wondering what's wrong with him. I don't know why that is, and whether that's just me, but maybe that helps: don't come on too strong?
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Date: 2010-02-07 02:19 pm (UTC)