You may well like the bright colours and eclectic clothes but if I was meeting you for a date and you rocked up in a brightly coloured shirt and something 'weird', I'd excuse myself to the bathroom as soon as we went into the bar or wherever then never come back. First impressions count and most women can judge a man within ten seconds. If I don't like what you're wearing, then you have no chance. That may seem extremely shallow, but that's the way this whole dating thing goes for women. I know of few girls that would appreciate your purple trousers, unless you confine your dating activities to the geek girl pool. And it's clear that you're not, seeing as I found you on POF.
From your responses to our comments it doesn't really seem that you're that willing to change, apart from the 'creepy' thing. And that won't make you appealing to a wider female audience. If you stay the way you are, you're confined to date females that are probably rather weird and don't shave their armpits.
My best advice to you, appearance wise, would be get a decent haircut, get yourself to Topman or Burton and buy something that's a bit more, um, fashionable? I know this probably goes against every fibre of your being but you're going to have to do this if you're going to get a girl.
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Date: 2010-02-09 12:44 pm (UTC)From your responses to our comments it doesn't really seem that you're that willing to change, apart from the 'creepy' thing. And that won't make you appealing to a wider female audience. If you stay the way you are, you're confined to date females that are probably rather weird and don't shave their armpits.
My best advice to you, appearance wise, would be get a decent haircut, get yourself to Topman or Burton and buy something that's a bit more, um, fashionable? I know this probably goes against every fibre of your being but you're going to have to do this if you're going to get a girl.